THE RIGHT WAY TO GO

Very often, someone will ask what the secret is to enjoying the best sex. And almost always, my answer follows with two questions. Firstly, one’s definition of ‘the best sex’ and secondly, how they go about enriching themselves towards that end.

For argument’s sake, let’s take ‘the best sex’ to mean getting it from someone who wants it as much as you do. Let’s put aside the mind-blowing, sweaty and aerobic-type sex. After all, who has that on a regular basis?

The worse thing a man can do is ask another man who appears to be apt at pleasing the ladies. He may sugar-coat his story and you won’t know it. He may share what women have told him but numerous women I have spoken to have admitted to lying about how good a guy is in bed so as not to deflate his ego. So he is most likely left with ideas that he is some sort of sex master while these same women rush home to seek real pleasure with their sex toys.

The key is to do your own research (if you are really serious about getting some) from reliable sources. The operative word here is ‘reliable’. Read women’s magazines or sneak into forums and you will hear it as it really is. One of the best places I have visited which has the most realistic and honest opinions is SexIs.

The articles are written by everyday people who share their experiences – often intriguing, highly useful and sometimes downright hilarious. But you will definitely take something from it as I have and still do all the time.

The great thing about SexIs is that not only will you learn lots but she too will since it is an extremely female-friendly site. It’s a start. Since it is also a part of Edenfantasys.com, you can also expose her to the range of wonderful sex toys that may just tickle her fancies. You can never tell. It will also give you lots of topics of conversation on the subject of intimacy and sex.

The other best place – and I cannot stress this more – to learn more about it is to have an open link of communication with your partner. Without that, all that you’ve picked up will mean very little.  It’s really a good way to get the right start in setting your sex life on fire.

Missus Singapore out!


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