Thứ Hai, 26 tháng 3, 2012

ASK THE BOLDER WOMAN

Queenie from South Africa writes, "Missus Singapore, I have this thing. I am married but I just can't stop thinking and fantasising about good looking men making love to me. I won't do it but I do feel guilty about it. Am I not made for marriage. I wrote in about the same issue to several magazines which have yet to respond to me. I was hoping you would."

MS: My dear Queenie, you are married, not dead. Marriage does not mean that you submit yourself to a lifetime as a nun. It's normal and if you think your husband doesn't have the same thoughts, you are wrong. Men have them all the time.

It's really alright to harbour such fantasies but I'd be more comfortable if your husband is also in the loop of your 'mental indiscretions', if he is open minded, that is. You can share your fantasies and you'll find that these can really add some spice to your sex lives. A little teasing of the male ego, albeit with subtelty, can drive him to want to 'our-perform' and 'pound away' any ideas you have of being with another man. It works wonders.

If you both talk more openly, you'll find too that it will not only help spruce up your sex lives but work to smoothen other areas of your marriage. With that comes trust. Give it a shot.

Missus Singapore out!
Missus Singapore or Miss Us Singapore (at your own peril) - A married woman on the loose

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THREE OLD MEN

Here's something for you guys to look forward to when you grow old. Thanks Jamess Bond for this and it's good to hear from you again.

Three old men were sitting around complaining about how much their hands Shook. The first geezer said, "My hands shake so bad that when I shaved this morning I cut my face!"

The second old fogey one-upped him. "My hands shake so bad that when I trimmed my garden yesterday I sliced all my flowers!"

The third old man laughed and said, "That's nothing. My hands shake so bad that when I took a piss yesterday, I came three times."

Missus Singapore out!
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i Light Marina Bay 2012

i Light Marina Bay is now on. 9th March to 1st April 2012

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Shanghai Renjia: Xiao Long Bao perfection



I remembered the first time I ate at Shanghai Renjia back in 2007.  I was so excited about the place that I went home and immediately wrote it up.  That's how I prioritize all of my posts.  That excitement usually translates through my camera lens as well as through my writing.  Other articles spend months on the shelf because I just can't seem to get my fingers moving. After a while in purgatory, the photos which I have initially uploaded simply get sent to cyber-oblivion.  It just means that its not worth your time or calories to know about the eatery.

But Shanghai Renjia is really exceptional.  It's one of those rare places that get me excited whenever I eat there.  The owners are so passionate that they never seem to stop thinking about ways to improve on their dishes. Take their Xiao Long Bao for instance.  Although it was already very good when I first blogged about them, I felt at the time that the pork filling could be more fragrant which was why I gave them a 4.25/5.  Over the years, Mr Li had shared with me that they also realize that it could be improved and have tried many different recipes until they finally worked out that it all had something to do with their supply of pork.  Now that they have fixed the problem, they are so confident about their Xiao Long Bao that they insist that you eat it without the vinegar and ginger dip.  The reason is simple.  The ginger is designed to mask any off flavours in the pork and the vinegar is used to negate the excess fats.  But when you have a Xiao Long Bao which is so well balanced, you should eat it without the dip to enjoy the natural flavour of the pork.  I couldn't agree with him more.  This is the best Xiao Long Bao I have had so far.  4.5/5



I have already said much about the Shen Jian Bao in my last post, so I am not going to repeat myself.  Suffice to say that I don't know anywhere else in Singapore who bothers making Shen Jian Bao the right way.  The right way being that the Baos are deep fried in a covered pan with an inch of oil such that the bottom is deep fried while the top is steamed.  It is such a difficult process that most other places simply steam the Bao first and give them a cursory sizzle over a pan before serving.  But doing it the shortcut way is got going to give you that crispy bottom and fluffy top that makes a real Shen Jian Bao special. My only grouse?  You gotta be real patient because you will just have to wait for your Bao's to be made.  4.75/5


Handmade Noodles

If you love noodles, then you must order their noodles with shallot oil.  My kids will eat them plain and they can't stop.  The noodles here have got that artisanal character and are made fresh every day.  They discard any leftover noodles because they don't use any artificial preservatives and so they don't keep long.  It is such a simple dish, but it is strangely satisfying.  It is even better if you order it with their Pork Chops.  I would eat two plates of this if not for the fact that there are other dishes that I need to eat.  4.5/5


Springrolls

Now, Springrolls are generally a pretty safe dish.  I mean, as long as it is freshly fried and the skin is crisp, how bad can it get?  But to find a Springroll that you can actually rave about is very rare.  When was the last time you had a Springroll that you want to tell all your friends about?  Now, if you are looking for such deep fried delight, then let me propose the ones from Shanghai Renjia to you.  With each bite of the Springroll, you are rewarded with the crispiness of the exterior shell, the chewiness of the rice paper on the inside and a sticky, gooey, savoury filling that is made by braising Chinese cabbage and minced pork until it has the consistency of glue.  I have never tasted another Springroll quite like it.  4.5/5



Part of the magic of Shanghai Renjia is that the couple here really believe that you don't need to use expensive ingredients to produce good food.  They feel that it is more challenging if you can create an exceptional dish using good quality everyday ingredients.  So a simple dish like their Jiu Jiang Chai (yellow chives) Omelette is just so simply shiok because of their skill in cooking it such that the eggs are still fluffy and juicy.  It just makes you love fried eggs all over again. 4.25/5


Smoked Duck (for private dining)

When you visit, do have a chat with Mr Zhang and ask him if there are any "off menu" dishes.   On the day I visited, they happened to have this smoked duck dish which was just so good.  Now, you might know that a lot of places do serve smoked duck nowadays because you can easily procure these from the supplier.  But they actually make their own smoked duck here and it is so juicy and has its own unique flavour which you can't find anywhere else.

Incidentally, they are closed on Mondays where they take a day off from serving the usual menu for their Private Dining customers.  So if you want to organize a meal for a group of at least 10, you can ring them up and make arrangements for your party.  The minimum cost is only $30 per pax!

Conclusion

The food here is unique and prepared with a lot of passion.  But I really need to warn you that if you go during the peak period, you need to be prepared to wait.  It's a small place to start with and they only have five tables in the restaurant, so you might not even get a seat unless you ring ahead to book first.  And because they insist on everything being freshly made, you will need to wait for your food to be prepared. So this is not a place for people in a hurry.  But if you are willing to be patient, you will be rewarded with food that will make you really happy.

Shanghai Renjia
Blk 151, Ang Mo Kio Ave 5
#01-3046
Singapore 560151
11am to 10pm
Closed on Mondays
63686927


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TASTY SEX TIPS

It’s a known fact that the longer a guy waits to cum, the more intense it is. But as many guys have told me, the problem is that it’s a lot easier in theory than it is to put to practice. So when a guy is fully aroused, chances are he is fighting hard in holding back from climaxing.

That said, on the other side of the fence, many women wrongly assume that his growing excitement translates to him wanting to ejaculate as soon as possible. Of course it’s a matter of body over mind and when it’s a battle between fighting off a cum and cumming, the latter always wins.

The best thing I can suggest is to take a strategic time-out. Try not to go at it with the same intensity from the word ‘Go’. Try the start-stop method. Focus can be turned to (READ: Pull the thang out) the woman (Yay!) as the man goes down on her or plants kisses all over her body. Yes, we ladies do like that!

Of course you can’t do that indefinitely but the best thing is to get the woman off first and eventually, have a mind-blowing one yourself. I’m told the orgasms this way are quite amazing.

If you’re very comfortable with each other, a woman can try applying some firm pressure on the tip of his penis after he pulls out of her. This will take some of the pressure off him and prolong his climax a little longer.

I remember some time ago, there was this young fella. All macho and what have you but he was ultra horny (so he says), but I see it as a bit of a pre-mature ejaculator! He gets hard fast no doubt, but all you really needed to do was hold his tool in your hand and bam, out it cums. A good load but hell, you can almost forget about any form of penetrative sex.

Missus Singapore out!
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FIT FOR THE ACT

A recent survey I read about found out that the path to a healthy sex life has to do with living a healthy lifestyle. Duh? Haven't I been saying that for the longest time.

The main thing to know is that a healthy cardio workout can reap libido-boosting benefits. The sex is better when you are healthy and fit. And there is no doubt many of you have discovered that the best time to have a good sex workout is after a gym workout when your sex drive seems to be at a peak.


The parts to work out are essentially the muscle zones you use for sex most - abs, butt, thighs, breasts, arms and back. So what are you waiting for, get into shape.

Speaking of shape, I've a little sad that some of my friends from school have totally let themselves go. I'm not putting down anyone who is overweight but I'm just saying that these are the lot I often hear about how dead their sex lives are. Besides, some bird told me that you might just be a walking time-bomb health-wise.

They always find excuses and occupy themselves with other chores and never get down to addressing their weight issues. I have one friend who is so pre-occupied with baking that she always says she is too busy for sex. But when I ask her what she misses most in her life, her answer - a hot sex session!!

To think she was once a slim, sexy and petite girl.

Another excuse, having children. Yeah sure, blame it on the kids. Your body is your responsibility and no one else's.

Missus Singapore out!
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VIDEO OF THE WEEK

This is one of the most hilarious things I've seen in a long time. Every part of it will help get your week off with a cheeky grin on your face. I especially love the part showing the penis ejaculating (if only). And then there is the cup full of semen. I wonder how many guys they got to fill it up. Or how about that stern looking nurse showing how to give a proper blowjob if you have dentures. Just hilarious. Have a good one!

Missus Singapore out!
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